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Even the Helicopter Matters: Why the 1% Deserve Compassionate, Competent Mental Health Care

Craig Richer by Craig Richer
May 9, 2025
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Even the Helicopter Matters: Why the 1% Deserve Compassionate, Competent Mental Health Care

Even the Helicopter Matters: Why the 1% Deserve Compassionate, Competent Mental Health Care

By Ekaterina J. Yarley
PhD Candidate in Health Psychology

We live in a world where wealth is supposed to be the antidote to suffering. A buffer. A shield. But any psychologist worth their salt will tell you: the nervous system doesn’t care about your income bracket. The body doesn’t become immune to sadness just because you’re sipping rosé on a private jet.

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And yet, for those of us in the 1%, finding a therapist who understands that, who doesn’t dismiss or mock our pain, can feel nearly impossible.

Too many psychologists unconsciously treat wealthy clients as emotionally spoiled or too fragile to take seriously. They pathologize the wealth. They tiptoe, project, or worse, resent. But beneath the luxury, the appointments, the image, is a very real human being. One with a heart, with losses, with attachment wounds. And often, with nowhere safe to go.

Let’s be frank here: the average salary of a therapist in the United States is about $60,000 to $75,000 a year. For many in the 1%, that’s a single month’s income. That discrepancy alone can make the therapeutic dynamic charged with unconscious tension. It’s hard for someone to hold space for your grief over private school bullying, surrogacy complications, or estate conflicts when they’re stressed about their student loans. It’s not their fault, it’s human. But it is real.

Because when you’re at the top, everyone expects you to have it all together. Your sadness is treated like an indulgence, not a symptom. And yet, the pressure, the isolation, the guilt, and the performance can be crushing.

But there’s another layer to this: the 1% doesn’t just struggle to find therapists who get them, they also struggle to find therapists from among them. Think about it: how many people from ultra-wealthy families are pursuing master’s degrees in counseling or PhDs in clinical psychology? How many are dedicating 8-10 years of rigorous study, unpaid internships, grueling licensure exams, and clinical hours, when money is never the issue?

Let’s be honest. Most people from generational wealth aren’t told, “Go be a therapist.” They’re told to preserve wealth, manage assets, or start ventures. So the pool of clinicians who both understand the lived emotional realities of privilege and have the clinical training to address them is vanishingly small.

This leaves a unique void. Not only is it hard to be understood, it’s hard to even find someone capable of understanding you.

Wealth doesn’t erase trauma. In many cases, it can amplify it.

You may feel guilty for not being able to enjoy what others dream of. You may feel disconnected from peers. You may struggle to trust new relationships. You may grieve a life that seems perfect on paper but feels empty at its core. You may be managing generational expectations, the quiet grief of absentee parents, or the stress of carrying the family name. And yes, you may feel sad that your helicopter isn’t able to fly today because it’s raining, and that’s okay.

Because sadness is sadness. The heart doesn’t grade its ache based on how many square feet you own.

I’ve worked with and spoken to many in the 1% who have spent years hiding their grief. Who downplay their pain to avoid being perceived as ungrateful. Who laugh off their symptoms in therapy out of fear they won’t be believed. But emotional pain doesn’t become invalid just because it’s inconvenient to others’ assumptions.

Wealth changes your problems. It doesn’t erase them. The right psychologist knows how to hold space for that truth. They understand that grief over a canceled vacation might be masking a deeper sense of loneliness. That a tantrum over a delayed jet might be an expression of powerlessness in a life that feels overly controlled. That you are not shallow, you are overwhelmed.

What you need is not shame. What you need is safety.

The right psychologist for someone in the 1% knows how to listen without judgment, reflect without projection, and gently dig beneath the surface without dismissing what’s real. They know that pain in privilege is still pain. And that no one deserves to feel mocked for their sadness just because it’s wearing designer shoes.

Because at the end of the day, you’re allowed to feel sad if your helicopter isn’t able to fly because it’s raining. It’s not about the helicopter. It’s about what it represented: freedom, escape, a moment of peace you were counting on.

And you’re allowed to want peace.

You deserve to speak to a person who understands that it’s not about the helicopter. It’s about having nowhere left to land. And if you’ve never been taught how to emotionally land, how to come back into your body, how to soothe yourself without being productive, how to be held rather than evaluated, then the storm outside is just the beginning. The real storm is inside you.

In health psychology, we don’t grade emotional pain by the luxury of its container. We grade it by its impact on the nervous system. And your nervous system doesn’t know it’s crying about a helicopter. It knows it’s dysregulated. It knows it’s overextended, overwhelmed, and under-supported.

That’s why the right therapist matters. One who won’t flinch when you say, “I cried because my helicopter couldn’t take off.” One who doesn’t shrink your pain to make it easier to hold. One who understands that your feelings are still real, even if they don’t look like anyone else’s.

Because pain isn’t less valid when it’s dressed in cashmere. It’s just more hidden. And that hidden pain deserves a safe place to land.

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